For years I have been unapologetic about the enjoyment I get from sex and men. I love it; being naked with someone you trust, being penetrated in a whirlwind of lust and letting time pass by as pillow talk swats away silence the morning after. But recently a close friend of mine made a passing … More Behind Closed Doors: On The Shelf
Anyone who’s had sex at least once will be able to tell you that male and female orgasms don’t have equal value. Male orgasms are easier to come by, which works out quite well because they also happen to be more moody when they fail to climax. Whereas female orgasms generally take a bit more … More Behind Closed Doors: Feeling The Pressure
Despite being able to embrace occasional text sex, for the benefit of long distance lovers, I’ve never sent any photos of my naked body, ever. I simply don’t have the trust required to do so. I also know just how easy it is to save, transfer and share images electronically. I’ve known of guys who … More Behind Closed Doors: Skype Sex
Over my years of intimate relations I’ve learnt that all lovers can be placed in one of these categories: No Chancers – Anal sex doesn’t cross their mind. In Their Dreams – Would love to fuck you in the ass but respectfully retreat at the first sign of your hesitation. Nags – Don’t register the … More Behind Closed Doors: Anal Sex from the Side Lines
In both life and love making I learn the most from the people that I’m with – what they say and what they don’t say. I’ve always enjoyed people watching but it wasn’t until recently that I realised how much I took on and learnt, be it from my local grocers or the owner of a … More Behind Closed Doors: The Most Beneficial Thing I’ve Learnt from a Lover
Weekend’s away with your lover are the perfect excuse to push a few boundaries and have some fun with the added risk of the housekeeper coming across your sex toys when he or she’s making the bed. Bondage is a massive world and one that Chris or I weren’t acquainted with. I cautiously dipped my … More Behind Closed Doors: Bondage Tape Take 1
Having sex in the shower is the sexiest thing in the world. You tip-toe into the bathroom while your lover is rinsing the suds of his sculpted shoulders, as he turns round to notice you standing there he clears the condensation off the glass with his assertive, strong man-hand to get a better look at you. You … More Behind Closed Doors: Shower Sex
I woke up to with him forcing his semi-flaccid penis inside me, he was on top of me and as I rolled onto my side (still half asleep) he wasn’t deterred. His semi-flaccid thrusting didn’t stop and I didn’t stop him. I barely knew where I was but I didn’t feel like I was in danger, … More Behind Closed Doors: Shame
My first experience of bondage was everything it should have been and more. I was sleeping with Ron, a guy who I felt comfortable with and trusted. We weren’t exclusive, but it would be later I’d find out he didn’t realise that and I’d have to have an all but enjoyable conversation with him to … More Behind Closed Doors: Fluffy Handcuffs.
Boys do not like wearing condoms. Girls know that, boys know that, everyone knows that. One guy once told me “it’s like wearing a shoe on your penis, a shoe that’s too big for you…a lot like a clown’s shoe!” Condoms are great; they prevent many unwanteds from being passed from person to person whether … More Behind Closed Doors: Don’t Be A Joker; Wrap Up Your Poker.